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What to Expect in Your First ABA Session: A Parent's Guide

  • Writer: Michelle Ventimiglia
    Michelle Ventimiglia
  • Jan 2
  • 5 min read


You've made the decision to start ABA therapy for your child - congratulations on taking this important step! Now you're probably wondering: what actually happens in that first session? It's completely normal to feel a mix of excitement and nervousness about what's ahead.

At Happy Luna ABA Therapy, we understand that the unknown can feel overwhelming. That's why we've created this guide to walk you through exactly what to expect during your child's first ABA therapy session in Tampa.


Before the First Session: The Initial Assessment

Before your child's first official therapy session, our Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA) will conduct a comprehensive assessment. This typically happens during a separate appointment and involves:


Parent Interview and Goal Setting

We'll sit down with you (without your child present initially) to discuss:

  • Your child's current skills and strengths

  • Areas where your child needs support

  • Your family's daily routines and schedule

  • Your priorities and goals for therapy

  • Any specific behaviors or challenges you're experiencing

  • Your child's interests, preferences, and motivators

This conversation helps us understand your unique situation and ensures therapy aligns with what matters most to your family.


Skills Assessment

During the assessment session, our BCBA will interact with your child in a relaxed, play-based way to observe their current abilities across different areas:

  • Communication and language skills

  • Social interaction and play skills

  • Daily living skills (dressing, eating, toileting)

  • Academic and pre-academic skills

  • Behavior patterns and responses to different situations

Don't worry - this isn't a test your child can "pass" or "fail." We're simply getting to know your child and understanding where they are right now so we can create the most effective treatment plan.


The First Therapy Session: What Happens

Once the assessment is complete and we've developed an individualized treatment plan, it's time for the first official therapy session. Here's what typically happens:


Building Rapport and Comfort

The first priority is helping your child feel comfortable with their therapist. We start slowly and follow your child's lead:

  • The therapist will engage in activities your child already enjoys

  • We'll use preferred toys, games, or activities identified during assessment

  • Sessions feel like play, not work

  • We move at your child's pace with no pressure

Some children warm up immediately, while others need a few sessions to feel comfortable. Both are completely normal!


Establishing Routine and Structure

ABA therapy works best with consistent routines. During the first session, we begin establishing:

  • A predictable session structure (greeting, activities, transitions, closing)

  • Visual schedules if helpful for your child

  • Clear expectations and boundaries

  • Positive reinforcement for participation


Beginning Skill Building

Even in the first session, we start working on goals - but in a natural, playful way:

  • Teaching happens during preferred activities and play

  • We use positive reinforcement (praise, access to favorite items, fun activities) when your child shows desired behaviors

  • Skills are broken down into small, achievable steps

  • Data collection begins to track progress from day one


Parent Involvement and Coaching

We believe parents are essential partners in therapy success. During or after the first session:

  • We'll explain what we're working on and why

  • You'll learn strategies you can use at home

  • We'll answer any questions you have

  • You'll receive updates on what we observed and next steps


Where Does the First Session Take Place?


At Happy Luna ABA Therapy, we provide services in the settings where your child spends their time:


In-Home Sessions:

  • Therapy happens in your own home

  • The therapist brings materials and activities

  • We work in familiar, comfortable surroundings

  • Skills learned transfer naturally to daily routines


School-Based Sessions:

  • Therapy happens at your child's school

  • We coordinate with teachers and school staff

  • Focus includes classroom behaviors and academic skills

  • Promotes generalization of skills to the school environment


How Long Is the First Session?

The length of the first therapy session varies based on your child's individual treatment plan, but typically:

  • Sessions range from 2-4 hours

  • Some children start with shorter sessions and build up

  • Frequency might be 2-5 days per week depending on needs

  • Your BCBA will recommend the optimal schedule for your child


What Should You Prepare?

To make the first session go smoothly, here are some helpful tips:


Before the Session:

  • Make sure your child is fed, rested, and comfortable

  • Have preferred snacks or drinks available if allowed

  • Set up a designated therapy space (for in-home sessions)

  • Share any recent changes in routine, health, or behavior with the therapist


What to Have On Hand:

  • Your child's favorite toys or activities

  • Any communication devices or tools your child uses

  • Comfort items if your child needs them

  • List of questions you want to ask


For Parents:

  • Be present for at least part of the session

  • Observe how the therapist interacts with your child

  • Ask questions as they come up

  • Take notes if helpful


Common First Session Questions


Will my child cry or resist?

Some children take to therapy immediately, while others need time to adjust. Both reactions are normal. Our therapists are trained to work through resistance gently and patiently. If your child is upset, we'll slow down, take breaks, and adjust our approach.


How quickly will I see progress?

Every child progresses at their own pace. Some families notice small improvements within the first few weeks, while other skills take longer to develop. The important thing is that progress is being made consistently, even if it's gradual. We track data carefully so you can see the changes over time.


What if my child doesn't like their therapist?

Rapport between therapist and child is crucial. If after a few sessions things aren't clicking, let us know. We can make adjustments to the approach or, if needed, consider a different therapist. Your child's comfort and progress are our top priorities.


Can I stay during sessions?

Absolutely! Especially during early sessions, we encourage parents to be present. As therapy continues, some parents choose to observe from nearby or use the time for other activities. We'll work with you to find what works best for your family and your child's learning.


What if I have concerns or questions?

Communication is key. Your BCBA and therapy team want to hear from you. We'll have regular check-ins, but you can reach out anytime with questions, concerns, or observations. We're partners in your child's progress.


What Happens After the First Session?

After that initial therapy session, you can expect:


Regular Therapy Sessions:

  • Consistent schedule based on your treatment plan

  • Ongoing skill building and behavior support

  • Progress tracking and data collection


Ongoing Communication:

  • Regular updates from your therapy team

  • Parent coaching and training

  • Monthly or quarterly progress reports

  • Treatment plan reviews and adjustments


Team Collaboration:

  • Coordination with other providers (speech, OT, school)

  • Family meetings to discuss goals and progress

  • Adjustments to therapy based on changing needs


Taking the First Step with Happy Luna ABA Therapy

The first ABA session is the beginning of an important journey for your child and your family. At Happy Luna ABA Therapy, we're committed to making this process as comfortable, transparent, and effective as possible.


Our BCBA-led team serves families throughout Tampa, Lutz, Carrollwood, Land O'Lakes, and surrounding Hillsborough County communities. We accept major insurance plans including Sunshine Health and Children's Medical Services.


Ready to take the next step? We're here to answer your questions and schedule your child's initial assessment.


Contact Happy Luna ABA Therapy: 📞 (813) 790-5119 📧 mventi2@happylunaabatherapy.com


Every child's journey is unique, and we're honored to brighten every step of the way with your family.


Happy Luna ABA Therapy provides evidence-based Applied Behavior Analysis services in Tampa Bay. Our Board Certified Behavior Analysts create individualized, family-centered treatment plans that help children with autism develop communication, social, and life skills in comfortable, familiar environments.

 
 
 
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